Paul Wesley is an American actor, director, and producer. He was born on July 23, 1982, in New Brunswick, New Jersey. He became well-known for his role as Stefan Salvatore in a popular TV show called “The Vampire Diaries.” Paul’s parents came from Poland, and he spent a lot of his childhood there.
When he was in high school, Paul loved acting and was part of theater studies in New York City. He attended Christian Brothers Academy, Marlboro High School, and Lakewood Prep. In his junior year, he got a role in a TV show called “Guiding Light”.
His big break came when he starred as Stefan Salvatore in “The Vampire Diaries”. People loved his performance, and the show became very popular. Paul Wesley has acted in many other films and TV shows too, including “Tell Me a Story” and “Star Trek: Strange New Worlds”.
Paul Wesley has been married twice. First to Torrey DeVitto, an actress, and later to Ines de Ramon. He speaks both English and Polish fluently because spending several months each year in Poland during his childhood.
As of 2023, Paul Wesley is 41 years old, his estimated net worth is $7.5 million, and he stands at a height of 5 feet 11 inches (180 cm or 1.8 m) tall.
Paul Thomas Wasilewski
Paul Wesley, P-Dub
Actor, Director, former model
The Last Run (2004)
Another World (1999)
Best Known for
Playing Stefan Salvatore/Silas in The CW’s supernatural drama series The Vampire Diaries since 2009
Date of Birth
July 23, 1982
As of 2023, Paul is 41 years old.
New Brunswick, New Jersey, United States of America
United States of America
School / College / University
Marlboro High School
Lakewood Prep School
Race / Ethnicity
Ice Hockey, Snowboarding, Playing with his cat
Physical Stats & More
- In feet – 5′ 11″
- In Centimeters – 180 cm
- In meters – 1.80 m
- In kilograms – 78 kg
- In Pounds – 172 lbs
- Chest Size: 44 inches
- Biceps Size: 15.5 inches
- Waist Size: 30 inches
Paul Wesley was born on July 23, 1982, in New Brunswick, New Jersey, USA. Paul’s parents Thomas and Agnieszka are immigrated from Poland, and he spent a significant part of his childhood there. He has two younger sisters, Leah and Julia, and an older sister named Monika Emara.
Paul Wesley was married twice. First, he was married to Torrey DeVitto, an actress, from 2011 to 2013. Later, he married Ines de Ramon in 2019. Unfortunately, their marriage came to an end, and Paul filed for divorce from Ines de Ramon in February 2023. Their divorce was due to “irreconcilable differences” according to the court papers filed in Los Angeles. They had quietly separated in September 2022. He does not have any kids from his marriages or relationships
Torrey DeVitto (2011–2013)
Ines de Ramon (2019–2023)
Monika Emara (Older Sister) (Attorney)
Julia Wasilewski (Younger Sister)
Leah Wasilewski (Younger Sister)
Relationship & More
In a relationship with Natalie Kuckenburg
April 17, 2011 (Torrey DeVitto)
February 2019 (Ines de Ramon)
Girlfriend and Dating history
Marnette Patterson (2004–2005)
Paul Wesley and Marnette Patterson dated from November 2004 to 2005. No more details about their relationship is known.
Torrey DeVitto (2007–2013)
Paul Wesley and Torrey DeVitto dated for four years after getting together in April 2007. They got married on April 17, 2011. Unfortunately, after two years, they divorced on December 23, 2013. After their divorce, Paul Wesley went on to date his Vampire Diaries co-star Phoebe Tonkin. As of now, Torrey DeVitto is dating Jesse Lee Soffer.
Phoebe Tonkin (2013–2017)
Paul Wesley and Phoebe Tonkin, both stars of “The Vampire Diaries,” dated for approximately four years. Their relationship began in 2013 after they met on the set of the show. At the time, Paul Wesley was going through a divorce from his then-wife, Torrey DeVitto.
Throughout their relationship, Paul and Phoebe kept their romance relatively private, but they occasionally shared sweet moments on social media. They attended events together and even traveled to Phoebe’s hometown in Sydney, Australia. After four years together, they had ended their relationship in 2017.
Ines de Ramon (2018–2022)
Paul Wesley’s relationship with Ines de Ramon began around 2018 when they were first spotted together in New York City. They kept their relationship very private in early days of their romance.
In August 2018, Paul Wesley and Ines de Ramon tied the knot in a secret wedding ceremony in Montauk, New York. They managed to keep their marriage private, with only a few glimpses of their life together, including photos with their dog, Gregory.
In September 2022, it was reported that Paul Wesley and Ines de Ramon had separated after three years of marriage. The decision to separate was mutual and had occurred five months before the news was reported.
Following their separation, Ines de Ramon was romantically linked to Oscar-winning actor Brad Pitt.
Natalie Kuckenburg (2023–Present)
Paul Wesley’s current girlfriend is model Natalie Kuckenburg. Their relationship began after Paul’s split from his ex-wife, Ines de Ramon. In November 2022, Paul and Natalie were spotted sharing a kiss and holding hands during a romantic dinner while on vacation in Italy.
Natalie Kuckenburg is a model and is 18 years younger than Paul Wesley. Since dating, they have been seen attending various events together, including NBA games and the Miami Open.
Paul Wesley and Natalie Kuckenburg have kept their relationship relatively private, but they have shared some glimpses of their time together on social media. They appear to be enjoying each other’s company and have been seen spending time together in different locations.
- Favorite Food – Fish and Mince pie
- Romantic Movie – Titanic (1997)
- Website – huffingtonpost.com
- Favorite Band – Kings of Lean
- Favorite color – Black
Net worth 2023
As of 2023, Paul Wesley’ estimated net worth is $7.5 million. Paul Wesley is most famous for his role as Stefan Salvatore in the popular CW series “The Vampire Diaries,” a show that garnered him significant recognition and a dedicated fan base. Through his portrayal of Stefan Salvatore, Paul Wesley received an estimated salary of approximately $40,000 per episode. Over the years, as the series gained popularity, his income naturally increased. Apart from “The Vampire Diaries,” he has also been part of various other television shows and movies, contributing further to his net worth.
In addition to his acting career, Paul Wesley has explored other aspects of the entertainment industry. He has ventured into directing and producing, adding to his earnings. He may have also earns some money by doing brand endorsements.
Beyond this, Paul Wesley has also been involved in other ventures. He co-founded Brother’s Bond Bourbon, a whiskey label, which could be an additional source of income for him.
Net worth Growth
|Net worth in 2022||$ 7 million|
|Net worth in 2021||$ 6.5 million|
|Net worth in 2020||$ 6 million|
|Net worth in 2019||$ 5.5 million|
|Net worth in 2018||$ 5 million|
|Yearly Earnings||$ 0.5 million +|
|Salary Per Episode||
$40,000 – $200,000
Paul Wesley owns two properties. One is a modern-minded log cabin in Topanga, California, which he acquired for just over $1.9 million. The 2,600-square-foot home on almost half an acre in the rugged, semi-remote mountains above Malibu has four bedrooms and two bathrooms.
The other property is a contemporary-style home located in the Studio City hills in Los Angeles, California. He purchased this house in 2022 for $2.245 million. The house was designed by Jay Vanos and has been updated with various additions, including a Sonos system, new cabinetry, custom drapes, and an in-wall home theater .
Lesser Known Facts
- Paul Wesley was born as Paweł Tomasz Wasilewski on July 23, 1982, in New Brunswick, New Jersey. However, he changed his name to Paul Wesley in 2005 to make it easier for people to pronounce and remember.
- Paul grew up in a household full of women, including his mother and sisters. This upbringing has made him value family and be a family-oriented person.
- Paul Wesley is fluent in both English and Polish. His parents immigrated from Poland, and he spent a significant part of his childhood visiting family in Poland, which contributed to his bilingual abilities.
- During his early years, Paul Wesley was involved in numerous fights and was eventually expelled from his first school, the Christian Brothers Academy in New Jersey. However, getting involved in school theater productions helped him turn his life around.
- Paul Wesley has claimed to have seen a ghost once. He believes in the existence of ghosts and shared his experience of encountering one during his childhood.
- Before achieving fame as an actor, Paul Wesley was actively involved in theater studies during his high school years, primarily in New York City.
- Paul Wesley is a co-founder of Citizen Media, a production company based at Kapital Entertainment. The company has sold numerous television shows to various networks and studios.
- Paul Wesley has had relationships with some of his co-stars, including Phoebe Tonkin, who also appeared on The Vampire Diaries.
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